10 THINGS DIVORCED PEOPLE WISH THEY HAD KNOWN IN ADVANCE

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There are divorcees whose main conclusion from their separation is that marriage itself was unnecessary. Others don’t go that far and ‘only’ regret not having noticed the warning signs.
There are divorcees whose main conclusion from their separation is that marriage itself was unnecessary. Others don’t go that far and ‘only’ regret not having noticed the warning signs.

1) COUPLE TATTOOS ARE NOT A GOOD IDEA
When passion is at its peak, a couple of tattoos is the ultimate proof of love. But if there were to be a breakup, you will be annoyed by this emotional relic from the past days, and you may also have to answer boring questions.

2) STEP-PARENTS SHOULD NOT BE UNDERESTIMATED
“You get married to the family too”, they say. This means that you can’t completely avoid your in-laws if you don’t want to offend your partner. But we must set limits so that the in-laws do not constantly interfere and torpedo the marriage.

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3) BEING RIGHT IS NOT EVERYTHING
For a marriage to work, you have to treat the other person with as much goodwill as possible. It doesn’t matter if you are right (or think you are right): accusations and denunciations are not the right way to resolve conflicts.

4) YOU DISCOVER THE WORST SIDES OF YOUR PARTNER
Divorce brings sides to you and the other person that you never knew before and that you could easily have lived without.

5) THERE ARE THINGS THAT ONLY THE OTHER PERSON CAN DO
Even if you feel like you’re doing 90% of the job on your own, there are almost always things that only the other can do, or at least always has.

6) YOU CAN’T COMPLETELY REMOVE THE OTHER PERSON FROM YOUR LIFE
You can indeed get rid of anything that reminds you of your former partner. But that doesn’t stop you from thinking about him, for example, when you turn on the dishwasher, because he’s always done it wrong.

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7) RELIEF DOESN’T LAST FOREVER
At best, a divorce brings great relief. However, sooner or later, some regret and sadness may appear.

8) CHILDREN MAKE THE SITUATION MORE COMPLICATED
As soon as you share custody of the children, you have to make arrangements over and over again after a divorce, even if you have nothing more to say to each other and want a clean breakup.

9) SOCIAL LIFE CHANGES
Parties and other social obligations can become a test if you suddenly find yourself alone.

10) DATING IS NO WALK IN THE PARK
Even if you have experienced a big failure with your ex-partner, do not stay on this experience to give up. To find the right person for you, you don’t have to stay at home. Do yourself ‘violence’ if necessary and start again! Even if it’s been years that you haven’t flirted or been flirted with, the rewards are worth the effort.

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The success or failure of a marriage has a lot to do with the expectations we have of our partner. Very few people take to heart the motto: “Love is not what you hope to get, but what you are willing to give” (Katharine Hepburn). We are responsible for our happiness, let us not forget this before putting the ring on our finger

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